Fears suggestible by parents
Our parents care about our health and good mood during our entire life. They do their best in order to prevent something or someone hurt us, to prevent us making mistakes. But, it often happens that their efforts for our good course appear to be the most harmful actions against our psychical health. Parents believe, that under our age we are not able to realise the real reason of their care, so, they made up different frightening stories to make us follow their rules. But, they never consider the fact that children's psychic percept those words in its own different way.
"You must wash your hands before you eat!" – the most frequent phrase children hear from their parents. That is okay and right, but it is wrong when this phrase is accompanied with colourful pictures that describe functioning of germs and harm they cause for one's health. For their disobedient children parents paint terrifying pictures about germs, bacillus and so on and so forth. Children's psychic is extremely delicate and precipitous, so those words strike children's imagination and result in the fears for different kinds of microorganisms. At first, the fear is developed as diligent care about cleanness of their hands, but soon, they see the danger of microorganisms all around them. With the laps of time they are gripped with panic and uncontrolled fear for microorganisms, and that fear results in phobia, that greatly influence their lives and cause more harm than any germ or microbus would ever managed to harm.
"Don't you stroke dogs/cats/other animals as those may bite you/infect with some disease!" – another phrase the children often hear from their parents. Parents are worry about health of their children as they know that any animal is first of all a beast and it may hurt child. But children see animal and get admired with it and so want to stroke it and with those deeds they undergo a risk to get hurt. Still, it's okay to care about your children and does anything to prevent them get hurt, but one should remember that in their efforts to protect children they may cause much greater harm the animals may do. To terrifying stories about mad animals will result in a fear for animals and in some time zoophobia and your children will not be able to play even with pets. That is not good as pets assist you children to grow up as responsible, responsive and unselfish.
Another phobia that is suggestive by parents is intimophobia. Parents, who care much about their children's sexual life before wedding, do their best to prevent that, as they believe that it is wrong. Thought about that comes into parents minds under influence of their experience and love for their children. Those both factors are obscure for children and so, there is no way for them to realise it. So, parents made up terrible stories that may become a reasonable base for refusal from sexual life. But, to zealous tries will not bring the desirable results but will bring fears and problems that will affect entire life of a person and will cause troubles in relationships with opposite sex.